Think about the interests in your life. Hopefully, you have some. Or think about the stuff you do for fun or enjoyment – favorite bar to frequent, hobbies, activities.
Are you doing these things because of you or because of someone else in your life? I know hanging with friends and family means you like them and want to be with them. I get it. But what is it that YOU enjoy or might enjoy? If it weren’t for a friend, family member, or significant other inviting you to do something or go someplace….would you do it on your own? Would you ever go to that bar? Would you ever check out that band? Would you ever read that book? Would you ever go on that trip?
Being who you are and doing what you enjoy is so important for happiness. Even if it means not doing what others want you to do. 
Love what you do
Love who you are
